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Showing posts with label date night. Show all posts
Showing posts with label date night. Show all posts

Monday, March 7, 2016

Weekend Getaway

It's been quite a while since Eli and I had a date night. We skipped vacations all together last year, planning on buying and fixing up a house instead. We took a day trip to the Amana Colonies last May for Eli's birthday. Other than that, outings with boys in tow are the most we've accomplished. We were more than ready to get away for a night.

Original plans were to find a bed and breakfast, maybe somewhere on the river, peaceful and quiet. Oddly enough, most bed and breakfasts we found were...not quite our style. Heavily antiqued, flowered wallpaper, no fireplaces or hot tubs--shared bathrooms. Shudder. Other nice places were either booked for the weekend already or geared toward summer vacations.

Eli took the reigns and booked a place, where I didn't even know right away. (Of course I squeezed it out of him.) Grandmas agreed to take boys for a night. Novices in this free weekend thing, we didn't even know what to do for a whole day besides dinner and a movie.

We left before lunch on Sunday morning, dropped boys off, and headed a mere 45 minutes south.

Our first stop was Scratch Cupcakes (for later, of course). I knew our hotel room had a fireplace and I'd had a vision.


We spied Whiskey Road across the street from the cupcake shop, and voted to stop for lunch while we were there.



We decided on the Buffalo Chicken dip and chips for an appetizer. Eli ordered the patty melt, and I the "build your own burger" option, both with hand-cut fries. Eli ordered a pint of Slingshot (in an actual pint jar) and I had a lemonade.


After lunch we headed to the hotel to check in. First time ever staying in a Hilton.


Everything was garden themed, even down to the carpet and light fixtures, and so nice.



Our "room" was actually a four room suite, with two bathrooms, a sitting room, and bedroom. Of course it had a double-sided fireplace, and a hot tub.




Once we checked in we did a little shopping. Well...a bit more than a little. We got things for the boys' Easter baskets, new hats (winter clearance!), I got a couple new skirts, a sweater and new top, a book (and talked myself into putting a half-dozen others back), and of course a bunch of boring stuff we were out of. Nothing like running errands on date weekend! We must be getting old.

We went to watch our movie next. My choice was Risen (the story of the Risen Christ from the perspective of an unbeliever), but it was playing at the most inopportune times. We watched The Revenant instead, "the movie that finally won Leonardo DiCaprio an Oscar". It's the story of a fur tradesman in the 1820's who is mauled by a bear and left for dead by his companions. It was disturbing, though probably pretty accurate in its gruesomeness for the time period. I cried, and had to look away during other parts. I was also unprepared for a 2 hour and 36 minute movie. Too long for a theater. A few couples left during the slow (travelling) parts, and Eli fell asleep for a while. It's a movie I would never choose to see again.

By the time we got out of the theater it was past 9 pm. We had planned to grab supper from the hotel "grille", but were too tired to socialize with other adults. (Age again?) We grabbed Hardees drive-thru (keep it classy, folks) and hit it for home sweet Hilton.


I scooted a chair (lined with pillows from the bed) and ottoman close to the firplace and cozied up with my new book and junk food.

This was the vision I had before we got to the hotel.



Eli tried out the hot tub, overheated, and went to bed. The whole suite got overheated, actually, with the fireplace on. I turned on the AC to avoid a heat stroke. Couldn't turn the fireplace off, though...we paid handsomely for that amenity. So we dozed off to (not crackling) cozy flames and nice cool bursts of air.

The next morning, child-free, no schedule to keep, we both woke at 5:30 am and lay there staring at each other. "I can't sleep anymore." "Neither can I." "Welp, I'm up."

I made coffee...first time ever using a Keurig. It was so easy, I loved it...and to think Eli almost bought me one for my birthday! I talked him out of it, feeling it was too wasteful, too expensive.



I had a peaceful morning drinking my coffee by the fire while Eli caught up on his favorite cable shows in the other room.

We grabbed breakfast on the way home. Back to real-life: from Hilton to gas station food. Breakfast of champions. Now we're off to sell some extra organs to cover this weekend.


It was great getting away, but so nice getting back home. Thank you to our wonderful mothers, father, and step-father who made it possible for us to get away this weekend, and for taking such good care of the boys. An essential part of the relaxing process is knowing they're in good hands. Thanks also to our friend and neighbor for taking good care of Mojo!

Back to the books tomorrow, literally.



Sunday, May 24, 2015

A Memorable Memorial - Part 1

We had a pretty busy weekend, so it's a relief to have a rainy, lazy Sunday to recover. Most of us are sprawled all over the house in one form of stupor or another. I made one of the boys' favorites, chicken noodle soup, for after Mass, and then put a frozen lasagna in the oven for supper. I wish I'd be inspired to make freezer meals more often! They make life so much easier.

Friday was Eli's 36th birthday. We made plans to head to the Amana Colonies since neither one of us had ever been there, and then to Backpocket Brewery for supper. My parents were so kind as to watch all four boys for us for the day! Such a treat!

We had to get the van washed before heading out. He looks so excited, doesn't he? If you could have heard the boy screams coming from our vehicle because of the soap shooting at us, you would understand. 

And a pre-date photo-op.

It was a bit of a long haul to the Amana Colonies, but it was nice seeing different country. Not knowing what to expect when we arrived, we found a parking spot behind one of Ye Olde Shoppes and started walking. 

My first impression...have you ever seen the movie "The Village"? I couldn't get that out of my head the whole afternoon! The colonies were settled in 1855 by German Pietists who had fled Germany under persecution by the government and the Lutheran Church. The Amana Colonies are famous for Amana Refrigeration and various handcrafted items.




We went into an antique shop for our first stop. We quickly realized this wasn't exactly our scene. Especially not for Eli. I love history, but this was history pumped up by consumerism. The prices of things were outrageous...or maybe I've just been spoiled by my junk hunting and thrift shopping? 

$395. Shop your favorite museum today!

Nope, outrageous. I tried to get a picture of a $145 framed pastoral print, but I was starting to get dirty looks from the proprietor. We beat a hasty retreat. While Eli stopped at the visitor's center I decided to sneak into a quilt shop, hoping to find a clearance section.



No such thing. I did find a stack of fat quarters for $90 before Eli found me. Don't get scared now.

 Eli said it was straight out of a horror movie.

We needed a plan. There are a number of wineries and micro-breweries in the area, so we skipped the antiques and followed the alcohol signs. Our day turned into a beer and wine tasting tour. 









The beer maiden rolled her eyes at me when I refused a draft after my samples, and I sheepishly followed my husband out to the beer garden. I'm sure my Irish and German ancestors did a quarter turn in their graves. We sat under the pergola by the mill stream while polka tunes blared from the speakers. Just looking at these photos gets "In Heaven there is no beer, that's why we drink it here" stuck in my mind again!



This winery was mostly gift shop, and specialized in sweet, syrupy wines. Think jelly mixed with alcohol. 






White Cross Cellars was my favorite winery by far. They had a wide selection of sauces, dips, and other specialty foods. The wine was delicious and we received good advice on what foods to pair different wines with. We bought a couple bottles of Chateu Blanc and a chipotle cheddar dip mix. Next Friday we'll enjoy these with fish tacos.



Eli bought me an iced coffee to enjoy on our walk back to the van. This was my favorite part! I snapped some pretty shots on our way.




We headed to Backpocket Brewery, about another half hour drive. We took a seat out on the patio to enjoy the rest of the day in a bit more restful way. 






Eli ordered the Meatza pizza and I the Caprese salad. After we ate we went inside and Eli picked out a couple birthday gifts.





Happy 36th Birthday to my soul mate and best friend!