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Thursday, August 26, 2021

Life Lately ~ July 2021

I've been dreaming lately. Of summers that last longer than three months. Of the place we hoped to find in the country, but with all the work we've put into this place already done there. Of taking the time to reap the rewards of our labor instead of hurrying on to the next project. It was a lifetime ago that I would wander around dewy grass wrapped in the romance of an easy summer morning, listening to the mourning doves coo, building my dream farm house with it's flowering gardens, while my mom hung up laundry. I was impatient then to make my dreams happen, not realizing the luxury I had at my disposal. I feel myself slipping more and more into old dreams lately. I'm tired and feeling very old this year.

The month of July was full; it always tends to be. Besides the never ending battle with weeds.... My projects are of the boring type and always the same: moving plants around, mulching, filling in holes with dirt, plaster, wood filler, ever and anon, and "slapping lipstick on a hog" (painting projects that sometimes make me wonder). I painted another large section of the back garage, but still am not done. Hopefully next month I can finally scratch that off the list. Eli got our new storm door on the front porch and it has made the front of the house look so much more put together. He installed the porch's old screen door on the back of the garage to replace the broken door, and it was a process retraining ourselves to push the latch before pushing through the door. If you own an old house you'll know what it's like only having a couple doors that latch at a time. Ha!


This month also marked five years since we bought this old 1901 Folk Victorian house as a fixer upper. I decided to take yearly photos to mark our progress, though ones from the very beginning compared with now are more dramatic. I'm also working on a post with before/after photos of each room we've worked on so far.

After we picked up the storm door we stopped at Carlos O'Kelly's for lunch with the two littlest kiddos. It was unplanned and very low key and really nice, and we decided it could be our anniversary meal. It's so hard to believe it's been 15 years. I also said the same thing on our 10th, and 5th...and probably will next year too.

The drought continued this month with very little rain, and the creek remained dry. I had thee littlest amount of mud to scrub from doors and the bathroom than any other year so far.

On the 16th we left for our family vacation at an Airbnb lake house in northwestern Wisconsin. My parents honeymooned in the area 40 years ago and I have fond childhood memories of vacations in the Chippewa area. We were able to borrow a trailer and kayaks for the trip, and spent a fun six days with my parents, brothers, and their families on the private 20-acre lake surrounded by 80 acres of woods. That first night after unpacking, my Dad was the first one down on the dock with a fishing pole, and Eli was close behind. These are precious memories I'll carry with me as long as God allows me to keep them.



One hour in and half-way through ALL the snacks we brought for the whole week.


Our traditional "crossing the Mississippi" photo.


You might be in Wisconsin if...




Wildflowers Mom and I picked the first day. We found ferns, black-eyed susans, daisies, hoary alyssum, bellflower, and bee balm.


The lake that first morning was breathtakingly idyllic. I took my coffee and my spiritual reading out onto the deck overlooking the lake.



I took my little girlies (daughter and goddaughter) out in a kayak the second day.


The cousins had missed each other and enjoyed the week they had together.





I spent a considerable amount of time trying to get a photo of a loon, but the closer I got, the farther away he swam.

Sunday we drove up to Duluth, Minnesota, and attended Latin Mass at St. Benedict's. From there we loaded up all the kids except the littlest two cousins and headed up the north shore of Lake Superior (after stopping at Sammy's Pizza and Subs for lunch).




Our first and only stop was Two Harbors lighthouse and Agate Bay. It was everyone's first time at Lake Superior, except myself, though it had been many many years since I had been. I expected the water to be icy cold and made all the kids step in, but we were sorely disappointed. It was 95 degrees and everyone was melting. We walked down the pier, snapped a quick photo, and then made a mad dash for a restroom...which we found to be closed to the public due to Covid. We were forced to use the most disgusting porta-potties I've ever seen. How that is safer than an actual restroom with running water, I'll never know. Anyway, our exciting adventure ended on the same note: we were disappointed to find that they closed the lighthouse for tours just as we got there. And there were no agates to be found in Agate Bay. 
















Making s'mores around the fire.







We celebrated Mom's and Ryleigh's birthdays while we were there. There was so much good food all week!






This was secretly my favorite part


My Dad and two brothers on the paddle boat, and three recently bucked candidates chasing down "Peggy," here shown fleeing the scene. 




Grandma organized an Easter egg hunt so all the kids could join in this year. 


The kids found a birdie in the lake and spent the last couple days having tournaments.



Loading up and heading home. We were all ready, and I was especially homesick for my doggos and my bed and my houseplants...which I fully realize sounds strange.

Ash turned ONE while we were gone...and Addie, who probably felt the worst about missing it, has made up for it by yelling HAPPY BIRTHDAY at him and snuggling him every time she notices him looking particularly cute.


For books I read The Secret Keeper by Kate Morton (you may have spotted it pictured above) and The Lark by E. Nesbit. Despite a couple racy parts I skimmed over, the former is now one of my favorite Kate Morton books. I did not expect it to take the twist it did at the end. I figured I should round out my experience by reading one of E. Nesbit's adult books since I've thoroughly enjoyed her children's books. It was entertaining in the quirky way all her books are and impossible to take seriously. Being submersed in her world makes you wonder why some of her characters don't randomly fall off cliffs. 

Aidan was keeping busy reading as well, and participated in a local public library's summer reading program by submitting the minutes he read every week. He ended up winning their grand prize, a Kindle Fire. He'll be able to use it for school now to listen to the text books we have this year on Audible. 

I'll leave you with some of the blooms and growing things I've thrilled over this month. 











I spy a busy bee
Making pumpkin pie for me







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